My Journey Begun

So, here we are.
Funny how writing has been hard for me these past couple months and now, the first thing that flows is about this stupid health crisis.

So how did I get here. How in this modern age of medicine did I, an intelligent woman, let it get to this point?

Oh. Yeah if you’re reading this is not knowing what’s going on. I have cancer.

Did I see it coming? Yep.

So before I begin the journey of beating this, let’s start with the journey of my ignorance.

FYI this entire journal journey will include how I am feeling, what my song is and goals.

Back to my story.

When Ron (My kids dad) was sick and at the end, I found the tiniest little lumps. Lumps are easy for me to find because I don’t have breast fat. Well I did when I was heavy.

Anyhow, back story, I have had over the years 5 surgeries on my left breast and lymph nodes. All BENIGN tumors and cysts, so when this one popped up, I didn’t think anything about it.

It went away after a few months. Yay. What?

Ok, so it didn’t go away, somehow like a freaking parasite it burrowed itself into my breast tissue. A few months later again, a rash appeared. Now I bathe, wash, never really thought it was that bad until well … it got bad. Then I faced the fact I didn’t have health insurance.

Now everyone is saying that shouldn’t have mattered. But it did to me. I’m a writer, money and income is not guaranteed and my kids just lost their dad.

I would get help. I knew I needed to. Finally during enrollment for open healthcare I was able to get a plan and then it was activated in February, and wading through Easter, I sought how I could get help. Nearest appointment was six weeks out. In the meantime, my writing was replaced with thoughts about this journey. And finally, when my underarm started to swell, I knew and I called place after place getting in quicker/ But not fast enough. Damn it I have a battle, but I never shied away from a fight.

Other than hiding my condition I hid it from my kids. I told them before the appointment.

And the journey began ….. tomorrow, the first step in getting help.

 

FEELING TODAY: Confident

MUSIC: Warriors by Imagine Dragons

GOAL: Finish the chapter in my latest book.